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  The phrase “you are stuck on the oral phase” is often used informally to describe someone who seems overly dependent, talkative, or drawn to oral habits like smoking, overeating, or nail-biting. Though casually said, this phrase has its roots in one of the earliest theories of psychological development—Sigmund Freud’s psychosexual stages. Understanding what this actually means requires a look at Freud’s theory and how early experiences shape adult behavior. According to Freud, human development occurs through a series of psychosexual stages, each associated with a specific focus of pleasure and conflict. The first of these is the   oral stage , which spans from birth to about 18 months of age. During this time, an infant’s primary source of interaction with the world is through the mouth—sucking, eating, and tasting. Freud believed that how a child’s needs are met during this phase lays the foundation for later personality traits. When Freud suggested someone is "fixated" a...

In recent years, society has increasingly blurred the line between genuine mental health conditions and simple bad behavior. The frequent invocation of mental illness as a defense for harmful actions does a disservice to those who truly struggle with psychiatric disorders. This trend not only undermines accountability but also contributes to the ongoing stigma surrounding mental health. As a medical professional, it is essential to clarify that mental illness should never serve as a blanket excuse for misconduct.   The Danger of Mislabeling Bad Behavior as Mental Illness   Equating bad behavior with mental illness distorts public understanding of psychiatric conditions. True mental illnesses—such as schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and major depressive disorder—are clinically recognized and often require medical intervention. However, impulsivity, aggression, or disregard for societal norms do not necessarily indicate a psychiatric disorder. Studies show that the majority of i...