You’re Allowed to Enjoy Your Life

When did joy become something we had to earn? Somewhere along the way, many of us began to internalize the idea that rest, pleasure, or even simple contentment must be justified. We wait to be productive enough, healed enough, helpful enough—before we let ourselves experience something good. But here’s the truth: you don’t need to earn every good thing. This belief—often unconscious—leads to a pattern of guilt around happiness. It’s the parent who feels bad for reading a book while the laundry piles up. It’s the entrepreneur who pushes through burnout, afraid to pause. It’s the high achiever who can’t sit still without feeling “lazy.” These aren’t isolated experiences. They’re symptoms of a culture that equates worth with output and sees rest as a reward instead of a right. Abandon Guilt. Choose Conscious Joy. Let’s be clear: there is no moral value in burnout. There is no inherent nobility in self-neglect. Guilt, in this context, is not a signal of wrongdoing - it’s a sym...